Issue 39: The Subtle Signs You’ve Outgrown Your Role

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ISSUE 39

23 APRIL 2025 | READ ONLINE​

Hi Reader,

There’s a certain discomfort that can creep in quietly, almost imperceptibly at first. You don’t hate your job. You’re not in crisis. But somehow, your role no longer fits who you’ve become.

What once felt like your dream job now feels like a holding pattern. You’ve grown as a leader. And now, your purpose is asking more of you.

Somewhere, somehow, you’ve started to feel misaligned. Sort of like wearing a well-tailored jacket that suddenly feels tight across the shoulders.

And yet, this isn’t something we’re taught to recognize or celebrate.
There are no accolades for noticing the internal shift before it turns into frustration or burnout.

But I believe this subtle, simmering knowing (the awareness that you’ve grown beyond your current space) is one of the most powerful signs of professional evolution.

What Happens When the Role That Once Fit, No Longer Does?

Sometimes growth doesn’t look like a big announcement or a public promotion. It looks like a quiet moment of honesty with yourself:

That realization can feel deeply uncomfortable, especially for those of us who have built careers by being dependable, competent, and high-achieving (yes, I’m talking about you).

If you’ve ever stayed in a role longer than you should have because it paid well, offered stability, or felt too risky to leave, you’re not alone.

In fact, I hear this from clients all the time. In their gut, they know they’re no longer being challenged or fulfilled, but are afraid of leaving a secure role, and it all feels too overwhelming to act on.

Here’s What I Often Say to Them. And What I’ll Say to You, Too

You don’t have to hit a breaking point before you make a move.
You don’t have to wait for someone else to give you permission.
And you absolutely don’t need a perfect plan in order to start exploring what’s next.

It’s okay to acknowledge that what once fit beautifully may no longer reflect who you’ve become or are still becoming.

There’s no failure in that. In fact, it’s a sign of deep self-awareness.

If You’re Sitting in the In-Between, Some Things to Keep in Mind

• You’re allowed to grow beyond a role, even one you once loved. It’s not betrayal. It’s not disloyalty. It’s honoring your growth.
• Financial security matters, but so does alignment. Golden handcuffs might protect your bank account, but they can quietly cost you joy, energy, and time you won’t get back.
• The “next thing” doesn’t have to be crystal clear yet. Many of the most meaningful pivots begin with recognizing that something needs to change, long before the new direction reveals itself.
• Leaving on your own terms is a mark of leadership. When you exit with thoughtfulness and integrity, you open doors, not just for yourself but also for those who come after you.

This Week’s Reading & Listening Stack

📖 Build the Life You Want by Arthur C. Brooks and Oprah Winfrey
A surprising combination of practical insight and emotional intelligence. It offers gentle nudges to reframe your understanding of happiness, success, and what a good life looks like when viewed through a wider lens.

🎧 We Can Do Hard Things with Glennon Doyle, Abby Wambach and Amanda Doyle. The podcast episode on identity shifts is good if you’re navigating a transition that doesn’t yet have a name. This episode unpacks the discomfort of not knowing, and how to stay grounded in periods of reinvention. Oh, and if you love Glennon Doyle like I do, read her book, Untamed.

Recent LinkedIn Highlights

Here are some of my most recent LinkedIn posts:

🧭 I wrote about how ambitious people sometimes mistake motion for meaning and shared a 3-C model for boldness. Read the post here​

✈️ I’m joining the EHS Leaders Summit in Phoenix on May 13 and 14. I’ll be giving a keynote on how to build a legacy of impact and facilitating a roundtable about practical tools for purpose-driven leaders. Here’s a link if you’d like to join the conference.

Mark Your Calendar: May 8 Masterclass Returns

After a fantastic response to our April session, I’m bringing back my 90-minute masterclass “Elevating Your Impact and Influence as a Safety Leader.” This is for anyone who wants to lead more powerfully, make a greater impact, and chart a career that aligns with who they are now.

Inside the session, I’ll walk you through:
✓ How to identify when it’s time for a career shift
✓ Strategies for positioning yourself as a high-impact, trusted leader
✓ A practical roadmap and workbook tailored to safety professionals

🗓 Thursday, May 8 (US) / Friday, May 9 (AUS)
🎟 Early bird spots are open.

👉 Reserve Your Seat for the May 8 Masterclass.

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Final Thoughts

If you’re questioning your role, your direction, or your next step, know this:

• You’re not being irrational. You’re being brave.
• This discomfort isn’t a problem to solve.
• It’s information.
• It’s a signal.
• It’s an invitation to evolve.

You don’t have to leap today. But you can start listening more closely. Because your growth deserves space and your future deserves your full attention.

See you next week,

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​Megan

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